{"id":342,"date":"2021-11-29T19:05:24","date_gmt":"2021-11-29T19:05:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/onlydavesmith.com\/?page_id=342"},"modified":"2026-05-15T15:46:11","modified_gmt":"2026-05-15T15:46:11","slug":"daves-only-blog","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/onlydavesmith.com\/?page_id=342","title":{"rendered":"Dave&#8217;s Only Blog"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">A writer&#8217;s blog seems to be one of those ubiquitous things that, like fire insurance, you just have to have even if no one ever uses it. As I have many thoughts about process, here we go.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">If you read any of these, please comment, say Hi, say anything at all, especially if you disagree.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/onlydavesmith.com\/?p=659\">May 15, 2026<\/a><\/strong> <strong>Lost at Home<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">If you\u2019re placing people and events in Cairo, Istanbul, and Warsaw 150 years ago, you really need to read and write Arabic, Turkish, and Polish in order to be completely confident. I don\u2019t, so I cheat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/onlydavesmith.com\/?p=650\">April 2 , 2026<\/a> Two Journeys<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Writing is different from reading. I write with intent and my goal is to entertain, shock, surprise, or provoke using plot as my first, but not only, focus. The nameless reader for whom I am writing, that entity out there I am trying to satisfy because I cannot write for everyone, wants to know what happens next.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/onlydavesmith.com\/?p=643\">January 28, 2026 <\/a>To Be Is to Have Been<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">The enigma of memory lies in the necessity of both remembering and forgetting. If we don\u2019t remember, we have dementia, and we\u2019re in serious trouble. If we can\u2019t forget, we are reliving trauma with every breath. Good writers let characters forget things, and remember things from a point of view, and ignore things, with an overall effect that, in some contexts, they are thoroughly unreliable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/onlydavesmith.com\/?p=621\">December 8, 2025<\/a> All You Need to Know in One Metaphor<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">A novelist has to write a book for a person they have never met, has to anticipate a need that cannot be described, has to initiate an interaction that is positive enough that a reader will come back after chapter one and continue to do so to the end.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">How the hell are we supposed to do that?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/onlydavesmith.com\/?p=611\">November 12, 2025<\/a><\/strong> <strong>Too Good To Be True<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Often, I am expected to care about a character who is presented as being rather impossibly \u2026 well, <em>good<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Also, to my horror, authors use the word \u201csavvy\u201d to describe them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/onlydavesmith.com\/?p=597\">November 6, 2025<\/a>  Bad to the Bone<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Biological bad guys, monsters who simply obey their nature, don\u2019t interest me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">So, if we\u2019re making a bad guy, not simply accepting that evil exists, where do we start? Here\u2019s a few places.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/onlydavesmith.com\/?p=590\">March 24, 2024<\/a> The Most UnKindest Cut<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">It was then when I began to inhabit my own private way-station, a place where fictional characters wait in anxious queues shuffling from gate to narrative gate in search of a destination worth the trouble of the journey. It is a place I cannot write my way out of, where my characters go not to die, but to languish unfinished, their thoughts, their wants and fears forever unexpressed for the simple reason that they are just not making the grade.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/onlydavesmith.com\/?p=579\" data-type=\"link\" data-id=\"https:\/\/onlydavesmith.com\/?p=579\">February 8, 2024<\/a> Unbearably Ubiquitous<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Guns are tools that, in American film, no self-respecting criminal or cop can do without. Today, now, there is a newer tool, and another cue for writers or actors and directors to follow as they make transitions. It\u2019s the smartphone. In film, the smartphone is out everywhere &#8211; at home, in the restaurant, in the car, in the bathroom, and the last thing anyone does is to pick it up, pocket it, or tuck it somewhere.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/onlydavesmith.com\/?p=573\">November 6, 2023 <\/a> A Big Mistake<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Assuming a reader\u2019s, or an audience\u2019s good will or support for a character has to be fatal. We have to have a reason to care. If your protagonist is going to save the universe, we better care about them over and above the saving part.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/onlydavesmith.com\/?p=561\">October 7, 2023<\/a> Who AM I?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">There was once a clever guy called Shakepeare who wrote about a lean and hungry Roman who asked his friend, \u201cTell me, good Brutus, can you see your face?\u201d After giving it a good try, his mate Brutus says, \u201cNo Cassius, for the eye sees not itself but by reflection, by some other thing.\u201d Cassius goes on to be Brutus\u2019 mirror, laying it on a bit thick if you ask me, but the point is made that we have a hard time seeing ourselves, in knowing who we are.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/onlydavesmith.com\/?p=548\">September 18, 2023<\/a> Another Fine Mess<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Rolling boulders, chases and shootouts, an unexpected confrontation with a soused postal worker, maybe even murder hornets all sound good. But these are narrative tight ropes and they are perilous; most often, there is no way to plausibly escape the landslide, the hail of gunfire, or the acid whip of a mother-in-law\u2019s tongue. Murder hornets, I hear, are a bitch.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/onlydavesmith.com\/?p=538\">February 25, 2023<\/a> Spread the Alarm<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">As I hammer away on my little keyboard, keeping myself out of therapy, composing characters and trying to keep straight my beginnings from my middles and my ends, I keep stumbling over challenges, issued by online writing types, that encourage people to write to a goal, like 5000 words in a day. Sometimes they suggest writing 5000 words, biking 50 km., and running 5 km.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Like a triathlon, vomiting included.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/onlydavesmith.com\/?p=529\">December 22, 2022<\/a> Read On, or Die Trying!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">A seven-word opening sentence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">It could be shorter, like, \u201cCall me Ishmael.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Or \u2026, \u201cIn the beginning.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/onlydavesmith.com\/?p=520\">December 05, 2022<\/a> The Illusion of Creative Control<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s a well-known theme.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">It starts with a scientist or tinkerer or god. An act of creation. Thought and purpose become reality and some \u2026 thing exists, whereas before there was only intention. The more interesting the thing is, the more likely that it takes on a life of its own, achieving some form of independence from its creator.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">That\u2019s when it happens.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/onlydavesmith.com\/?p=501\">May 31, 2022<\/a> I Just Have One Question<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">If the death of Socrates doesn\u2019t force some useful questions about the weaknesses of democracy, then you\u2019re missing the whole point of Socrates.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/onlydavesmith.com\/?p=510\">August 25, 2022<\/a> To Observe and Imagine<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">My trip to Costco was so much worse than I had imagined and, at the same time, so much better.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Funnelling past the membership sentries at the garage door entrance, I dutifully tailed my sister closely, and there at the threshold held my breath, the space I perceived at once evoking feelings of both claustrophobia and agoraphobia. There was row upon row of stacked boxes preventing me from seeing any distance. At the same time, the starkly white ceiling over my head soared many stories high, empty space to spare. As I navigated this contradiction, I had to be careful not to spend too much time gaping slack-jawed at the profusion of single-item displays, the towers of TVs, the pyramids of pyjamas, lest I be run over by a bargain-hunting scavenger who knew their way around and had long ago forgotten what it was like to step in this place for the first time.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/onlydavesmith.com\/?p=484\">April 19, 2022 <\/a> Writing and Revising: Having a Good Scratch<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">When I think I have something to say, a scene that needs describing, for example, it gets written fairly quickly. The result communicates effectively, the scene is set and I move to the next bit before I forget what it was that I really wanted to write about, normally some point of plot that needs establishing. That\u2019s how I keep going, more or less from one plot point to the next. My composing brain is motivated by narrative. It wants to tell a story.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/onlydavesmith.com\/?p=471\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/onlydavesmith.com\/?p=471\">March 21, 2022<\/a> One Title, Over Easy<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">A chapter title means that you, the author, know what the chapter is about. For me, it helps grease the wheels in the ol\u2019 writing garret when I want to bang out another few thousand words before the week is out and I need above all else a direction. If I can come up with a title before writing the chapter, I know where I\u2019m going. If I invent it later, after the writing, it means that I know where I\u2019ve been, equally important in becoming the path I\u2019m on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/onlydavesmith.com\/?p=464\">March 8, 2022<\/a> Words Suck<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">There are loads of adverb haters, people who say they would like to exterminate them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">I agree only to the point that you often don\u2019t need them if the rest of the page is okay.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Take, for instance, this:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cClearly,\u201d Beau said, \u201cthis is a really bad sentence.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/onlydavesmith.com\/?p=458\">February 14, 2022<\/a> What&#8217;s It All About?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">There are people, and I have no idea if they are just a vocal minority among arty types, who claim to have been on a mission to fulfill a vision, something so compelling that it was there, fully realized from the first step, first word, initial brush-stroke, or notion of a gesture. They were focussed, single-minded, on a path, answering a call, on a pilgrimage to a mysterious site known only to themselves.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">And, after their arty work is done, they say, \u201cLook! See what I did? That was my vision and now it exists!\u201d It is left as tribute, then, to Art. There may be light snacks and beverages served.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">We mere mortals gather, are suitably impressed, then aspire to emulate the artistic act.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">If only we had a vision. How do we start if we don\u2019t have one of those?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/onlydavesmith.com\/?p=448\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/onlydavesmith.com\/?p=448\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">January 14, 2022<\/a>    The Scariest Words<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Eat your soggy vegetables first. Always good advice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Rip off the band-aid. Just practical.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Always get the bad news before the good. Goes without saying.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Write what scares you. Scary.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/onlydavesmith.com\/?p=428\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/onlydavesmith.com\/?p=428\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">January 09, 2022 <\/a> The Curse of the Comically Common Name<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">When I tell people my name, they don\u2019t laugh, usually, and they don\u2019t ask me how to spell it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Usually.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">They do pause, almost as if I had said my name was Harry Ball or I.P. Knightley. Well-trained people keep their comments to themselves, while others conjure up something like, \u201cWell, that\u2019s an easy one.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/onlydavesmith.com\/?p=398\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/onlydavesmith.com\/?p=398\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">December 16, 2021<\/a> Writing what you WANT to know.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Some people say, \u201cWrite what you know.\u201d Many people do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Fair enough. I get it. Experience informs creativity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">But it seems to me that most of us who try to write fiction live in our heads.<a href=\"https:\/\/onlydavesmith.com\/?p=369\"><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/onlydavesmith.com\/?p=385\" data-type=\"URL\" data-id=\"https:\/\/onlydavesmith.com\/?p=385\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">December 08, 2021<\/a> Creative Silences<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">The elements of experience move around each other \u2013 aural, visual, kinesthetic and finally verbal \u2013 and, without understanding where it came from, there it is \u2013 a new formulation, a new context, a new thought.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/onlydavesmith.com\/?p=369\">December 02, 2021<\/a> Talking to Myself (In Conversation With Me)<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">There have been many times when someone in my family has caught me. My facial expressions give me away, along with that middle-distance look I get. They want to know what I am discussing with myself. I will never say. Those are my private thoughts oozing out through my face and it\u2019s nobody\u2019s business.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-medium-font-size wp-block-paragraph\">Of course, I\u2019m just talking to myself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/onlydavesmith.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/20211129_134502-1-1024x576.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-349\" style=\"width:597px;height:336px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/onlydavesmith.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/20211129_134502-1-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/onlydavesmith.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/20211129_134502-1-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/onlydavesmith.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/20211129_134502-1-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/onlydavesmith.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/20211129_134502-1-1536x864.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/onlydavesmith.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/20211129_134502-1-2048x1152.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 706px) 89vw, (max-width: 767px) 82vw, 740px\" \/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A writer&#8217;s blog seems to be one of those ubiquitous things that, like fire insurance, you just have to have even if no one ever uses it. 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